I get it…teenagers don’t come with instruction manuals.
What worked for your oldest may not work for your younger teens, and what worked today, may not work tomorrow.
Here’s what I know: getting support for your teen may feel like the most important thing. It is, AND it’s important for you to get support too.
We’re a hot match if you:
Know there is a better way to get through the teen years!
Don’t want to waste another moment of struggling and feeling helpless
Are open to the concept of gentle/conscious parenting
Want to give your kid the confidence that they are fully capable without you
Know the #1 goal is connection with yourself and your teen
Are ready to dedicate time and energy to this process
Oh Hey 👋🏽
I’m Elise - Mama and Coach
Former middle school teacher turned life and wellness coach. Mama to 2 unique and wonderful daughters. My passion is helping moms and preteen/teen girls get through this challenging time with more connection and ease.
One thing I have learned through my training as a Certified Trauma-Informed Life Coach is that if we do not heal our own wounds, we (unknowingly) navigate the world searching for danger everywhere as a means of protection.
Confession, sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night worrying that my daughters will do some of the crazy things I did. There’s a part of me that feels like, “Hah, they’ll never be able to get anything past me because I was the ultimate rule breaker/liar, so I will spot it!” (This was my tactic with my 24 year old stepson and it didn’t make for a happy life.)
But then I ask, “Is that really how I want to parent my daughters through their teen years? Always searching for lies and trouble.” Definitely not!
In these moments, I coach myself just like I do the mamas I work with, reminding myself, my children are not me. Their situation is not my situation. And my work is to heal my own wounds so I can show up for them with less judgment and more curiosity as they navigate the challenging waters of being a teenage girl today:
Confidence and body image (pssst, have you healed around this?)
Anxiety and stress (psst, how are your stress levels?)
Social media issues (I think we all have a bit of an addiction to this)
Sleep and physical health (psst, how are you doing in this area?)
Friend issues (pssst, have you healed around this?)
Relating to family (pssst, always healing for us in this area)
Sexual preferences and gender identity (this is a really tough one for parents to navigate)
See what I mean, we have a lot of our own healing so we can truly show up for them!
And I don’t think anyone should have to do this alone! You or your daughter, and that’s why I’m here to help.
Learn more about me…
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Rugged Upbringing
I grew up in Northern California on 300 acres, 45 minutes out a dirt road with no TV, no phone, and no toilet.
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My Teen Years
I was a hot mess of a teen, but I turned out ok! And this helps with my superpower of working with teenage girls and their mamas.
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Current Struggle
I have a mysterious, undiagnosed autoimmune condition that keeps reminding me of the importance of taking care of, and listening to my body above all else.
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Change is Possible
I used to be a night owl and loved to sleep in, but now I wake up at 5:30 every morning to meditate + journal. This is proof that we can change when we really want to.
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Raising Kids
I have a 24-year-old stepson, so yes, even though my kiddos are not teens yet, I have done the challenging teenage years as a step parent.
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Middle School Teacher
I am a former middle school special education teacher. This awkward age group are my people. I just get them.
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Broken Heart
I got my heart broken at 15 and ran away (as an exchange student) to Italy for 11 months. It was amazing and horrible at the same time!
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My Kiddos
I have two daughters that I adore, who inspire me to do my own healing, and work so I can show up for them in the way they need me to.
Ready to get started?
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