I get it…teenagers don’t come with instruction manuals.

What worked for your oldest may not work for your younger teens, and what worked today, may not work tomorrow. 

Here’s what I know: getting support for your teen may feel like the most important thing. It is, AND it’s important for you to get support too.

We’re a hot match if you:

  • Know there is a better way to get through the teen years!

  • Don’t want to waste another moment of struggling and feeling helpless

  • Are open to the concept of gentle/conscious parenting

  • Want to give your kid the confidence that they are fully capable without you

  • Know the #1 goal is connection with yourself and your teen

  • Are ready to dedicate time and energy to this process 

 
 

Oh Hey 👋🏽

I’m Elise - Mama and Coach

Former middle school teacher turned life and wellness coach. Mama to 2 unique and wonderful daughters. My passion is helping moms and preteen/teen girls get through this challenging time with more connection and ease.

One thing I have learned through my training as a Certified Trauma-Informed Life Coach is that if we do not heal our own wounds, we (unknowingly) navigate the world searching for danger everywhere as a means of protection.

 

Confession, sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night worrying that my daughters will do some of the crazy things I did. There’s a part of me that feels like, “Hah, they’ll never be able to get anything past me because I was the ultimate rule breaker/liar, so I will spot it!” (This was my tactic with my 24 year old stepson and it didn’t make for a happy life.)

But then I ask, “Is that really how I want to parent my daughters through their teen years? Always searching for lies and trouble.” Definitely not!

In these moments, I coach myself just like I do the mamas I work with, reminding myself, my children are not me. Their situation is not my situation. And my work is to heal my own wounds so I can show up for them with less judgment and more curiosity as they navigate the challenging waters of being a teenage girl today:

  • Confidence and body image (pssst, have you healed around this?) 

  • Anxiety and stress (psst, how are your stress levels?)

  • Social media issues (I think we all have a bit of an addiction to this)

  • Sleep and physical health (psst, how are you doing in this area?)

  • Friend issues (pssst, have you healed around this?)

  • Relating to family (pssst, always healing for us in this area)

  • Sexual preferences and gender identity (this is a really tough one for parents to navigate)

    See what I mean, we have a lot of our own healing so we can truly show up for them!


And I don’t think anyone should have to do this alone! You or your daughter, and that’s why I’m here to help.

Learn more about me…

  • Rugged Upbringing

    I grew up in Northern California on 300 acres, 45 minutes out a dirt road with no TV, no phone, and no toilet.

  • My Teen Years

    I was a hot mess of a teen, but I turned out ok! And this helps with my superpower of working with teenage girls and their mamas.

  • Current Struggle

    I have a mysterious, undiagnosed autoimmune condition that keeps reminding me of the importance of taking care of, and listening to my body above all else.

  • Change is Possible

    I used to be a night owl and loved to sleep in, but now I wake up at 5:30 every morning to meditate + journal. This is proof that we can change when we really want to.

  • Raising Kids

    I have a 24-year-old stepson, so yes, even though my kiddos are not teens yet, I have done the challenging teenage years as a step parent.

  • Middle School Teacher

    I am a former middle school special education teacher. This awkward age group are my people. I just get them.

  • Broken Heart

    I got my heart broken at 15 and ran away (as an exchange student) to Italy for 11 months. It was amazing and horrible at the same time!

  • My Kiddos

    I have two daughters that I adore, who inspire me to do my own healing, and work so I can show up for them in the way they need me to.

Ready to get started?

 

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